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Theresa Julia Messina was born in Methuen, Massachusetts, on September 27, 1929, to Michael and Julia Zieba. A devout Catholic, Theresa cherished her faith, her family, and the simple pleasures of everyday life. She loved nature and found joy in the little things that made life special. She also enjoyed dancing and sharing a laugh with those around her. Her wonderful sense of humor brought smiles and laughter to family and friends.
Theresa was the beloved wife of the late Paul Carl Messina and a loving mother, grandmother, and great-grandmother. Her family was always at the heart of her life. She was a hard worker who devoted herself to raising her children and caring for her family at home. She worked tirelessly to provide a loving home and create lasting memories with those she loved. Whether spending time with family, enjoying music and dancing, or sharing a funny moment, Theresa knew how to appreciate the happiness found in everyday life.
Her children were Paula Cote, her late husband Daniel; Diane Cashore and her husband, John; Eric Messina and his wife, Telva; and Phillip Messina and his wife, Andrea.
Theresa was also a proud grandmother to Vinoba Persaud, Rebecca Abel and her husband, Michael; Daniel Cashore; Danielle Cote; Matthew Cote and his wife, Meagan; Jennifer Messina; Austin Messina and his wife, Monica; and Adam Messina. Her great-grandchildren, Lucy, Benjamin, and Nicholas Abel, brought an additional generation of love and joy to her family.
Theresa grew up with nine brothers and sisters. She was predeceased by Mary Kulpinski, Stanley Zieba, Helen Zieba, Louis Zieba, Anna Tuminowski, Edna Pankauski, Josephine Tamousauskas, John Zieba. Her only surviving sibling is Agnes Zappala.
Throughout her life, Theresa was a hard worker. In addition to dedicating herself to raising her children and caring for her family at home, she worked in house cleaning and at NEPSO, where she sold Catholic school uniforms. She also enjoyed singing with the Coral Arts Society alongside her husband, Paul. She was a member of the Senior Center, where she participated in activities and enjoyed connecting with others. Her love of music and dancing, along with her wonderful sense of humor, added joy to the many experiences she shared with others.
Theresa spent her final year at Warde Assisted Living, where she remained involved in the community. Her family extends heartfelt thanks to everyone at Warde for the kindness, care, and love they showed her. Their compassion and dedication meant so much to Theresa and her family.
Theresa will be remembered for her deep Catholic faith, her strong work ethic, her devotion to her children and family, her love of nature, her enjoyment of dancing, and her wonderful sense of humor. She appreciated life's simplest pleasures and the laughter that made special moments even more memorable. Above all, she treasured her family and the time she spent with those she loved.
Her life is a beautiful reminder that happiness could be found in the little things good laugh, a favorite song, a dance, and the love of family. The memories she created and the love she shared will continue to be cherished for generations to come.
Calling hours will be held on Tuesday, November 3rd, from 4 to 7pm, at the Carrier Family Funeral Home, 38 Range Road, Windham, NH 03087. A Funeral Mass will take place on Wednesday morning, at 10am, St. Matthew's Parish, 2 Searles Road, Windham, NH. Burial will follow at Immaculate Conception Cemetery in Lawrence, MA.
For directions or to leave a message of condolence for the family, please visit www.carrierfunerahome.com.
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