Terrence Patrick Kinneen, 72, of Pelham, New Hampshire, unexpectedly passed away on September 11, 2026. He was the son of James and Claire Kinneen of Bedford, Massachusetts, and grew up alongside his five brothers, Tim, Michael, Sean, Jimmy, and Devin.

Terry was truly one of a kind. He had a larger-than-life presence, a generous heart, deeply held convictions, and a gift for storytelling. Sports were an integral part of life in the Kinneen family, and Terry developed a love for them early on. He played hockey and football in high school before attending the University of Massachusetts Amherst, where he played rugby.

It was during his freshman year of college that Terry met Kathleen Albach, the love of his life. From the moment they met, he knew she was the one. Though distinct in personality, they balanced one another, and their shared strength, determination, and devotion made them a remarkable team. Their college romance grew into 54 years together and 47 years of marriage.

Together, they built a life in Pelham, New Hampshire, where they raised their three children, Erin, Colleen, and Teddy. Terry was deeply loved by his family, and he was immensely proud of his three children. He was a devoted presence in their lives. He brought that same pride and devotion to his five grandchildren. True to form, Terry chose his own name for the role: GOM, short for “Grand Old Man,” a title as distinctive as he was.

Terry found both his passion and his calling during his 27-year career with the New Hampshire State Police. What set him apart was his ability to think outside the box and devise creative solutions to the most difficult cases. He paired that ingenuity with unshakable tenacity, a formidable work ethic, and relentless drive, ultimately rising to the rank of lieutenant and serving as commander of the Special Investigations Unit. Over the course of his career, his exceptional investigative work earned him more than 50 awards and commendations. He also became a widely respected expert on outlaw motorcycle gangs and served as president of the International Outlaw Motorcycle Gang Investigators Association, a role that brought his expertise well beyond New Hampshire. The theme song at his retirement party, Frank Sinatra’s “My Way,” epitomized the independence, conviction, and determination with which Terry navigated both his career and his life.

Terry enjoyed travel throughout his life and especially treasured summers spent with family at Lake Winnipesaukee, where he proudly served as the family boat captain. In retirement, he loved taking cruises with Kathy. His favorite destination was Bermuda, which they visited several times. Closer to home, Terry could often be found singing as he mowed the lawn or swimming at the Salem Athletic Center. He also enjoyed the excitement of trips to the casino and scratch tickets, always holding out hope that the next one might be the big win. Throughout his retirement, Terry continued to entertain family and friends with stories from his years in the State Police.

Terry is survived by his children, Erin; Colleen and her husband, Austin; and Teddy and his wife, Meghan; his grandchildren, Parker, Graham, Kayleigh, Ashlyn, and Bradie; and his brothers and sisters-in-law, Timothy and Pamela Kinneen, Dennis Michael and Deborah Kinneen, Sean and Joanne Kinneen, James and Roisin Kinneen, and Devin and Tracy Kinneen.

He was predeceased by his beloved wife, Kathy Kinneen, and his parents, James and Claire Kinneen.

Services will be announced shortly. To leave an online message of condolence, please visit www.carrierfuneralhome.com 

Terry leaves behind a lifetime of stories, a family who adored him, and a legacy that will never be forgotten. He was one of a kind, and there will never be another GOM.